I have a box of memories. It contains a collection of my childhood drawings, old family letters bundled together, music that had significance to me at some point, a copy of my Masters thesis (the most cohesive things I ever wrote), video tapes, the decorational flowers from my wedding cake, photos, negatives, wine corks from special occasions... Basically, it's the box I would grab if the house caught on fire. The kids love to fish through it, amazed that I wrote letters at the tender age of four. And they are mesmerised by the photos. They love guessing who's who, though they often miss by a generation, which amuses me. (They sometimes miss even within their own generation, and will sit and argue over whether the baby in the picture is Emma or Selina). This box means even more to me now that I have kids, because it helps them piece together their own life puzzles. I still remember most of the people in the photos, but the kids never got the chance to meet some of them. The photos and letters gives them an insight into their own history, and as they get older they will come back to them and research and rediscover them until they have a fuller picture of who they are. This is what I cherish about photography. It's like a long arm stretching back into your own past, helping you get to know your 'young parents' a little bit better, or seeing a resemblence with a grandmother or auntie. Some of the prints are so washed out, you can barely make out who their depicting. But having a bad photo or no photo at all makes all the difference. It's a memory saved, and I'm glad for each and everyone of them.


Me with my dad. Me with my beloved grandmother. My grandmother's mother with one of her 11 children and a granddaughter. 4 generations right there on my coffee table.